The fellowship has broke....or not
Read this from "Life of a slacker", James's blog .
We bunch of people have known each other and been together for about decade +-, ever since the days of when we knew each other in The Boys Brigade. (16th 'Busok' Company!!!!!)
During these years, 1 or 2 of us left the group, but still generally most of us still stuck together. Until when we were of age and some of us had the opportunity to go overseas to further study.
It was not that bad the last round when i did my Bachelor. I came back and the bunch of them were still together, like a bunch of unpluck bananas. But this time round of studies, more things seem to take place. Ed starts part time school and new job soon. Terence work and his girl. Ben probably more with his poly mates....and other others. Hope they fill me in, keep me in the loop.
This group, I could say was our comfort zone. There is always a time when each of us found a new direction to go, and this direction might be pointing away from your comfort zone. So take courage and go forth!! Part and parcel of growing. Although moving out of a position you are so damn comfortable with may seem difficult, or you are reluctant to. Still have to do it to progress.
Just like Lord of the Ring Part 1, when the fellowship broke up, after the fight when Boramir was killed. And Frodo and his gay buddy Sam went different ways from Aragon and the gay elf. (ok maybe not good example but something like that lah). But hey they were all happy n together eventually.
(hahaah i dunnoe what am i writing already)
ok shall end here lah. blabbering nonsense.....as always. Hope to see all you guys when i get back to singapore next time round. lets go 'shake legs & stir coffee'.
Ever since,
kel went aussie for studies,
Ed studied part-time locally,
Terence busy with work (but i guess more on GF)
& others i don't even know busy with what lahz ....
& an insect (is spider consider insect?) don't know busy with what ....(saving $$)
we're like, having lesser time together.
or should i say, i'm having lesser time with them now ...
We bunch of people have known each other and been together for about decade +-, ever since the days of when we knew each other in The Boys Brigade. (16th 'Busok' Company!!!!!)
During these years, 1 or 2 of us left the group, but still generally most of us still stuck together. Until when we were of age and some of us had the opportunity to go overseas to further study.
It was not that bad the last round when i did my Bachelor. I came back and the bunch of them were still together, like a bunch of unpluck bananas. But this time round of studies, more things seem to take place. Ed starts part time school and new job soon. Terence work and his girl. Ben probably more with his poly mates....and other others. Hope they fill me in, keep me in the loop.
This group, I could say was our comfort zone. There is always a time when each of us found a new direction to go, and this direction might be pointing away from your comfort zone. So take courage and go forth!! Part and parcel of growing. Although moving out of a position you are so damn comfortable with may seem difficult, or you are reluctant to. Still have to do it to progress.
Just like Lord of the Ring Part 1, when the fellowship broke up, after the fight when Boramir was killed. And Frodo and his gay buddy Sam went different ways from Aragon and the gay elf. (ok maybe not good example but something like that lah). But hey they were all happy n together eventually.
(hahaah i dunnoe what am i writing already)
ok shall end here lah. blabbering nonsense.....as always. Hope to see all you guys when i get back to singapore next time round. lets go 'shake legs & stir coffee'.
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